3 Tips to Help Your Child Learn Better

3 Important tips to help your children learn well

The way children learn has an impact on how much they will retain. You want your young child to take in as much information as possible. Learning has not occurred if there is no change in a child’s knowledge base. There are certain conditions that make learning easier for your child. Here are the most important 3 tips:

1. Learn Early in the Day

A child’s best concentration occurs early, when their mind is fresh in the morning after waking. By the time the day wears on, your child will become tired and distracted by other things. After lunch, there tends to be less focus as well. By dinner time, your child’s ability to concentrate on other than food diminishes.

Have you ever noticed how mathematics and English are taught in the first period at school? As soon as your child enters the classroom, the first subject is always math or English, because schools place a high value on these subjects. They know that by the end of the day children will become less focussed. This is also why art and sports are usually taught in the afternoon.

Decide on which subject is important to you then focus on that first. I would cover Qur’an, Arabic and Islamic studies first, then mathematics, English and science next. Last I would let them do the less academic activities, such as art and sports.

2. Learn in the Preferred Learning Mode

Have your child study in his preferred learning mode. As a teacher, I would try to accommodate all the children in my classroom, by using the different learning modes to teach. Since you are your child’s parent, you would know which mode your child learns best in. This is not to say that you only teach in that mode, as children still need variety, but it means that you predominately teach in your child’s preferred mode, and sprinkle in other modes. There are three learning modes:

  • Visual
  • Auditory
  • Kinesthetic/tactile

Visual is where your child prefers to see things such as charts and images. His brain can process the visual information fastest. Auditory is where he learns through hearing sounds such as through recitals and speeches. His brain can process sounds fastest. Lastly, kinesthetic and tactile is learning through moving and touching such as role-playing and hands on activities.

If you do not yet know your child’s preferred learning mode, then observe him and see which mode makes him happiest when learning. Also ask yourself these questions, “Does my child likes to see things or hear things or move and touch things?” and “Does my child always says ‘Let me see’ or ‘Let me hear’ or ‘Let me feel that’?”

Remember that all children will like to see, hear, move and touch things, but there is one thing that they like more than the other – this is their preferred learning mode. Once you’ve figured out which is your child’s preferred learning mode, then find lessons and activities in this mode., and remember to mix in the other modes as well to make it interesting.

3. Practice and Revise Daily

Whatever your child is learning, it needs to be practised and then revised, because as the saying goes, ‘use it or lose it’. Allow your child the chance to apply the learning into new situations or to at least practice it. Knowledge by itself is not worth anything if it can’t be used and acted upon. If your child is memorising a new surah of the Qur’an, then have him recite it during his prayers. If your child is learning to spell new words, then have him use them in writing sentences and in conversations. If your child is learning multiplication facts, then have him solve multiplication problems that are relevant to him – I’m sure you get the picture.

Once you can see that your child can use what he’s learnt, then quiz him on the information, to help him recall what has been retained. It can be a small quiz or a big test. If your child can remember, understand and use what was learnt, then thinking has occurred and that is success.

These are the lower levels of thinking in the revised Bloom’s taxonomy, which basically classifies the different levels of thinking. This is great for young children, but for older children, they would need to analyse, evaluate and create something based on the new information learnt – and that is how children will be able to learn much better in the long run inshAllah.


12 thoughts on “3 Tips to Help Your Child Learn Better”

    1. Wa iyaki. If your child is struggling with maths then try using concrete materials to explain the concept to her. Maths is usually very abtract so you need to somehow make it concrete for children.

  1. Perfect timing! I was looking for such an article. Love it! I haven’t firgured out what type of learner my 7 year old boy is.. I feel like he’s all 3…or the Kinesthetic one. All I know is that getting him to do his homework is like pulling teeth…every single day :(

    1. We all use the 3 modes but which one stands out the most for your son? If your son is kinesthetic then try to use math manipulatives when doing math homework (doesn’t have to be expensive – you can use paper models or household items such as paper clips) or act it out for language arts.

      The other thing is if he has a lot of homework then do it in blocks. Tell him to finish the math first then he can take a 5 minutes break. then do the next lot.

      May Allah make it easy on your son and you.

  2. I absolutely agree on the points you have mentioned. This is the standard way of learning any piece of ext, be it in any language. I am always busy with teaching my kids and theres much of learning too, that is to be done everyday. We usually follow the same steps :):)

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